How to Ask a Sugar Daddy Out?
When you meet a sugar daddy in some sugar daddy finder site or real life, you don't know how to ask him out. Then you ask a male friend for advice on how to ask him out. Step 1: go to him. Step 2: say, would you like to go out with me? But is it really that easy? The older you get, the harder it is to figure out how to ask out a sugar daddy. So, as a sugar baby with a history of romantic ups and downs, how can you come up with the best way to ask out a sugar daddy? Especially if you're not even sure he's interested in you.
First of all, why are you asking out a sugar daddy? You're probably thinking, I'm a traditional girl, and I want that guy to ask me out. But I bet you are not so much a traditional girl as you are afraid to go up to a man you like, ask him out, and then have him reject you or even laugh at you. But come to think of it, most men probably don't want their intentions to be misunderstood. In fact, a third of men worry that their actions will be considered sexual harassment. So, if he's worried you'll misunderstand him, he'd rather not take the risk.
So be brave and ask him out yourself! You're a strong woman. You're not afraid of anything. Don't worry, I will give you some advice to make things go more smoothly for you if you want. The most important thing is to do it with confidence. Men like confident women and find them sexy, so as long as you have confidence, you can shine no matter where you are.
Use bad pick-up lines Try this when you meet a potential sugar daddy in real life. For example, when you meet someone you don't know at a bar or party. You want to be part of the conversation and make an impression. A man's pick-up line is tacky, so why not give him one yourself?
Do I know you? Because you look like my next boyfriend. If you were a vegetable, I'd be a cook. I lost my heart, it seems to have run where you go, and can you give it back to me? I seem to have lost my phone. Can I borrow yours? These are all pick-up lines you can use. They may sound bad, but they work really well for men. Remember, your goal is not to make things easy, but to have fun. Getting a man to smile can break the ice and make it easier for you to get in the mood to attract him. At the very least, that would open the door to an interesting discussion. You two can compare chat-up lines and laugh.
Use the "I have a spare ticket" technique This is a good excuse to invite others, but think about what kind of tickets you want to offer. Will he agree to go to Celine Dion’s concert with you? Will he go to a movie with you? Unless he really, really likes you. He's more likely to agree to accompany you to a favorite sporting event, beer festival or band concert.
Now, remember, if he can't go or doesn't go, you're stuck with two tickets, so make sure this is where you really want to go. That way, even if you're rejected, you don't have to go somewhere you don't like. Also have a backup friend who will go if your plan fails.
Treat him to a cup of coffee Coffee shops are a warm place to meet people and minimize your risk of rejection. Coffee is such a safe activity that few people turn it down at their leisure. If he doesn't like you, all you have to say is: oh my god! It’s just a simple coffee. I promise he'll feel like a jerk.
Text him out I know texting is a challenge because you can't read the other person's attitude. How do you know he really likes you through text and emoji? It's hard to tell if a man likes you by text message, so I suggest you make at least a few live or video calls so you can better gauge their interests. But in general, if he's texting you every day and talking to you all the time, then I think all the signs are that you're a good date.
Keep it simple. Would you like to try that new coffee shop with me this weekend? He may not have seen your text yet, so don't nag after asking. Strike while the iron is hot, and wait to ask him out in conversation, not out of the blue.
Ask him out to a group In fact, the biggest obstacle to asking a man out on a date is being rejected. You may excel in other areas and be considered a person who can handle all difficulties. But you just can't stand it when a man rejects you.
So if you can't get over the fear of rejection, this strategy is a good one: ask him out with you and a group of friends. On the one hand, it seems like just a bunch of Platonic friends partying in the city. If that's what he wants -- just to be friends -- then there's no harm, no foul, and you'll all go out and have fun. You may feel bad that he doesn't have romantic feelings for you, but at least you won't be alone in the face of rejection. On the other hand, he may accept your invitation and after spending some time with you, he will realize that there is a spark between you. Anyway, you win. Maybe next time you'll have the confidence to go one-on-one with him!
Learning how to ask out a sugar daddy takes a bit of practice. You are likely to encounter rejection. But so what, rejection isn't the end of the world, is it? You don't know why a sugar daddy would refuse your invitation. He may not be single. He could be gay. He might have other sugar babies. So don't immediately assume that you are a horrible swamp monster, and that the reason he refused is not on you. Know with confidence that he's just not right for you and be open to his rejection. Treat experience as practice. You'll be better able to ask out a sugar daddy next time. Now, go to find a sugar daddy. Try some dating sites for sugar daddies and sugar babies like Sugar Daddy For Me. Wait until you find the potential sugar daddy, then try asking him out.